Kendall Caper (Right) and late husband Julion Evans (Left)
had been together for 17 years before they got married.
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*Hmm…If I am being totally
honest here, something about this just ain’t right. No matter your
religion, when something like this happens and is said to happen in the name of
God, an eyebrow is raised…or should be. What’s in a name? Probably not much, as
far as Kendall Capers is concerned – if the name has the words New Hope
Missionary Baptist Church in it.The night before the Home going
Celebration of his late husband Julion Evans was to take place, the family
received word that the funeral wouldn’t be taking place at the church after
all.
Why?
Because God wouldn’t like it.
Huh?
Evans died from amyloidosis, a rare
disease that occurs when amyloid, an abnormal protein, builds up in your
organs. Evans and Capers were members of the New Hope congregation in
Tampa, Florida, so Capers arranged to have the service there.
Not in MY church; you don’t! Pastor
T. W. Jenkins cancelled man’s funeral because of his sexual orientation.
But the funeral was abruptly
canceled the night before it was scheduled to happen. The family got word of
this by phone, when someone from the church called and said that it would be
“blasphemous” to hold the service there, according to KCCI.
The cancellation came after members
of New Hope noticed Evans’ obituary, which named Capers as the “surviving
husband,” according
to WFLA.
T.W. Jenkins, the pastor of New
Hope, told WFLA over the phone that his church does not believe in gay
marriage. “I try not to condemn anyone’s lifestyle, but at the same time, I am
a man of God and have to stand upon my principles,” he said.
Of course the Evans’ family members
were devastated by the news, and the family matriarch was too upset to speak to
reporters on the phone. “Regardless of our background, our sexual orientation,
how can you wait that long and put someone in a bind when they’re going through
a loss?” said Capers.
Evans’ funeral took place instead at
the funeral home which handled his wake.
New Hope has a welcome song that they sing
during services that says:
Welcome. Welcome. Please won’t you
stand.
As we great you by clapping our hands (clap, clap).
Welcome. Welcome. We’re so glad you came.
Welcome. Welcome. In Jesus’ name.
As we great you by clapping our hands (clap, clap).
Welcome. Welcome. We’re so glad you came.
Welcome. Welcome. In Jesus’ name.
It evidently does not apply to gay
people.
“It’s not like we woke up and said,
‘let’s be gay,’ (it’s something) we were born with and we’ve dealt with it for
me, 40 years, him 42 years, and we make the best possible choices,” said
Capers to WFLA.
The couple was recently married in
Maryland, reportsFOX 13. They had been together for seventeen years.
What do you think a God that is said
to be “all-loving” would say about this?
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