You don't need a pity party...brace up and face the facts!

Don't be negative towards yourself

Don't feel bad of who you are

Don't constantly dwell on your past failures

You need to let go of your failures and start focusing on your new possibilities

You cannot have bad attitude towards yourself and expect the best to come through

Have a good opinion of who you are

Know that change starts from the inside

And for that, why not get your internal dialogue going on in the right direction

You can

Yes

You can